That is only natural then, that a reestablishing of those vibrations, that synchronicity, that rhythm would be difficult. Trying to connect to the child, yet the child external suffer one would naturally transfer these energies to other people. The connection is often then better made to oneself, the inner rhythms, the sense of one's highest self, receiving both the positive helpful loving messages from the child's guides, from your own guides, from various beings who might be there ready to assist you.
At the same time as this, the birthing process has for most mothers been a difficult one. An important contributing factor to this is poor diet. Diet has not been extensively studied in terms of how it affects one psychologically, with relationship especially to raw fats and often then during the pregnancy process, the reduction of fats has taken place. These are then available in such short supply that it is only natural that the child would have drawn sufficient from these as to leave the mother in deficit; hence, creating some of the difficulties in and of themselves.
It is important in recognizing in working with postpartum depression that there is no blame. There is the opportunity to welcome, examine and work with all of the aspects that are available, most importantly is the attitude, thank God there it goes, as opposed to oh no not again.
That is, instead of avoiding the feelings to have them, but also to nurture, to nourish, to strengthen his anyway that is possible by which the individual is then able to build up physicality. Oftentimes this is very much amplified by the feelings of the father, those around, those who are supporting or assisting as in immediate family and so on.
Such amplification takes place unconsciously, they are not aware that they are contributing to the problem but they are; to simply have the sense of love, connection, an openness, to receive every energy that the mother could transmit without judgment to listen deeply without criticism.
The other aspect here is a more difficult psychological one that is being recognized to some extent by psychologists but that which still is not widely understood. When you have a child at whatever age that child is, you will be reliving various aspects particularly those which were incomplete, not finished by you, at the same age, so when your child has just been born you are to some extent reliving some of the aspects of your childhood shortly after the time when you were born.
These are often times in which you will know deep awareness or consciousness of what was going on. You were not then easily able to comprehend and work with energies around you so it is no wonder then that as those energies might have been difficult, you do not have a conscious awareness right now of such difficulty, yet feel the energies around them a sense of sadness or anger or frustration that a child might feel.
For this, various exercises that can allow you to be as a child to role as a child might roll on the bed or floor. To move the body in the simplest of motions, the ways in which you might cry or heal those energies could also be helpful. This does not only of course, apply just to the mother but all of those who are connected to the child will to some extent be re-experiencing their own childhood experiences and to have these, to work with them, as you might say, welcome them, this could be a helpful process as well and support and encourage the mother in accessing and working with her own buried issues.
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