Soul Helpers & Evolutionary Duo

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Please talk about the concept of soul helpers in relationships. When specific souls come together to help one another push forward in rapid growth and awakening. How common is this in one’s soul’s evolution? Is this set up before life is lived or altered by guides and helpers during one's incarnation?

Hilarion: Mostly set up beforehand, oftentimes in previous lifetimes that which continues lifetime after lifetime. Have you ever come back to visit a teacher you had at an earlier time and noticed that teacher is putting that energy into the new class and wishfully perhaps you would imagine that they would be teaching you again? They will. These are the opportunities shared with you on so many levels in the future. The opportunity then to be helped and to help. These are individuals who cycle these energies around again and again not because they are karmically tied, that can show up of course, and is an important part of it where various aspects that draw them together not so much for this aspect of enlightenment or learning or consciousness but that of trading off victim/ perpetrator issues and forgiveness issues then remain.

But, for the rest, for the teachers, for those who continue to assist and so on, you are the best teacher for that individual because you have known them before, because you can share those energies. Oftentimes, in the inter-missive period (that is the time between lives) you bring into your collective energies your own circle, your own helpers and so on, people that you will then want to interact with. The timing of this is a little tricky. Guides and helpers and various ways of synthesizing these energies always go to the intent. What was the real purpose in this when the individual has moved across certain shifts in their life? Certain transformative aspects? Then it would be time to meet that other person. Then it would be time to interact in this other way.

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Sometimes it gets complicated when it is combined with your own karma. When there are various issues that also have to be worked out between the one who is helping and the one who is being helped. But, the real key to it is that you have the attitude, you have the understanding of that, you are ready for this, you are willing to receive these lessons, you are going to take that which shows up outside and bring it at some level inside for yourself. This is as if a powerful alert flag to helpers and guides, bring ‘em on! Let's have these teachers right now. Let's bring in these energies wherever we can right now. The individual is ready.

There is of course a time when you say, “too much.” That is a time when I'm not ready. You always have the opportunity to do this, but this is a wonderful time for welcoming more of this because generally speaking for most people, that group of people that you had interaction with in the inter-missive period is far larger, more varied, more intense, and works across far more cultural and various geographical and economic boundaries then you could possibly imagine. 

You may think that those teachers, those individuals who are showing up for you are the limit of it and for most people you are seeing five perhaps 10 maybe at most 15% of what is possible. Really, the key to it is in your own willingness and not that of the availability of these teachers and helpers because people today can easily be in contact with each other through so many means, through so many ways that were not previously available.

In addition to this you must understand the real purpose of this. The way in which it is for you to grow, to understand but ultimately to be able to really work with this energy you also help, you also assist someone else. So, to the extent that you're constantly reminding yourself of this even if it is just subconsciously by helping those who are younger or less experienced than yourself you are opening consciously to those powerful and important lessons that can be shown to you on so many levels.

One of the most interesting parts of this is where two individuals have contracted with each other to encourage each other's evolution to be the central focus point, to bring in energies of other teachers, other helpers, other energies and to assist each other through their own evolution. We call this an, "evolutionary duo," and it is beyond ultimately, that which affects the soul in the sense of what is called a "twin flame," because here the idea is not for the sense of completion but rather for greater and more accelerated evolution.

The real key to it though, the important first door that must be opened in order to truly understand and work with the evolutionary duo principle is the speaking of it where with your partner, with this person you make some sort of conscious agreement to assist in each other's evolution and not on the other side, not in the inter-missive but here, now. I choose you to bring into my life whatever might be needed for me to evolve. 

Oftentimes, this will look like sandpapering or obstacles, or issues in relationship. Other times it may be in which you are then sharing with someone else as if seeing through your own eyes. But, in all of these cases the key to it is the same. It is not just about the clarification, it is not just about the insight that comes from your choice to evolve, it also comes from this other place. This place of love. This place that says I lovingly accept what you share. I lovingly welcome who you are. I lovingly welcome who we are, who I am.

This brings us to another question about forgiveness and we would like to indeed turn this over to another but before doing so we would like to point out that this is a time in which a great gift of forgiveness is available and yet it is important to recognize the moment you think somehow forgiveness might be needed you are unconsciously acknowledging the presence of a split, of a shift in energy. In which that which was at some point one splits off into two could be called in its simplest fashion victim and perpetrator.

So, that which needs forgiveness might be considered the perpetrator. That which needs to project the forgiveness to another might be considered the victim. But whatever way you look at it, it is important to remember this. Because as we have often stated in the trading through lifetime after lifetime of karmic principle in the way in which people have so many characteristics of both that true forgiveness comes when you acknowledge that you are both the victim and perpetrator.

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